How we work together

Three containers. One question underneath all of them: what do you actually want, when you stop asking everyone else?

Jessica Steffen on a coaching call

They're not levels, and you don't have to start at the beginning. They're different amounts of time — and time is mostly what this needs. Four weeks to hear yourself again. Three months to start living from it. Six months for the leap itself.

However we work together, you're never just waiting for the next call. Every container includes ongoing WhatsApp and voice note support between sessions, because the things worth saying rarely arrive on schedule.

Sessions are 60 minutes, online, wherever you are. Everything you say stays between us.

How a session works

Sixty minutes, and you talk more than I do.

You bring the question. Every session starts with what you want to be clearer about by the end. Some weeks that's a decision sitting on your desk; some weeks it's a feeling you can't name yet. Both count. We spend the hour on that one thing rather than catching up in general, and we stay with it until something has actually moved.

Mostly I ask. People come to a coach wanting answers, and I understand why — I did the same. But the answers that hold are never the ones handed to you. They're the ones you arrive at yourself, which is why the real skill I trained for at Brown is the asking: knowing which question to put in front of you, and when to stay quiet while you find your way to it. I'll ask again, a little differently, because the first answer is usually the one you've told people before. Somewhere in the second or third pass, something truer tends to come out. That's the part I won't let you talk yourself out of.

No two clients get the same process. Some think best out loud with nothing in the way. Others want more insight into how they're built, and we'll bring in personality and profiling frameworks to give language to what you've been circling. I'll follow what works for you rather than running you through a fixed programme.

And it doesn't stay abstract. Most clients end up building a 30-60-90 day plan — specific enough to act on, yours rather than borrowed — alongside a longer-term vision worth walking toward. So the clarity turns into a direction, and the direction turns into your next three months.

I'll reflect back what I hear, including the things you said quickly and moved past. I'll notice when your voice changes. And I'll tell you when what you're describing doesn't match what you said you wanted — gently, but I will tell you. You've had enough people agree with you politely.

Four Week Reconnection

699 €

You know this part already.

Four weekly sessions to get quiet enough to hear yourself again. No plan, no pivot, no five steps — just the parts of your life you've stopped looking at directly.

  • The job title you lead with, even on the days it doesn't feel like you anymore
  • The version of yourself you perform in meetings, in LinkedIn posts, at dinners with people who knew you before
  • The vision board you made two years ago and haven't looked at since
  • The thought that arrives around 11pm: that you don't actually know what you want anymore, only what you're supposed to want

Four weeks won't answer all of that. Nothing could, in four weeks. But it's long enough to stop drowning it out. Four weekly sessions where the question isn't "what should I do next" — it's "who am I, underneath everything I built to be seen as enough?"

Not another method. A reconnection — you, with you.

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Three Months Realignment

1.399 €

Once you stop performing, a harder question shows up.

Now what do I actually want?

Not the version of you that's supposed to want it. Not the one that photographs well. The real one — the life that would still feel true if no one was watching.

Twelve weeks, six bi-weekly sessions, to take what you found and start living from it. Not redesigning your résumé — realigning the actual shape of things: your days, your work, your relationships, what success is even for. All of it pointed back toward the person you just met again.

Not a five-year plan. A realignment — your life, pointed back toward you.

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Six Months Transformation

2.499 €

Knowing isn't the hard part.

You've probably known for a while.

The hard part is the leap. Leaving the job that looks right on paper. Saying the thing you've been swallowing. Building the thing you've been almost-starting for years. Letting the people around you watch you become someone they didn't order.

Six months, twelve bi-weekly sessions, to actually do it — not alone, not blind. This is the container for the leap itself: the fear that shows up right before you jump, the identity that has to loosen before a new one can hold, the ground under your feet while everything else moves.

Not a leap of faith. A transformation — the life you build once you stop asking permission.

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Questions people actually ask

Do I need to know what I want before we start?

No. If you knew, you wouldn't need this. "Something is off and I can't explain it" is the most common starting point there is, and it's enough.

Is this therapy?

No, and it doesn't replace it. Therapy is where you understand why you are the way you are. Coaching is what you build forward with that. Plenty of people do both — I have. If something comes up that belongs with a therapist, I'll say so.

What languages do you work in?

English or German — whichever one you think in when no one's listening.

What if I need to reschedule?

Life happens. Let me know at least 24 hours in advance and we'll find a new time.

What if I pick the wrong container?

That's part of what the call is for — I'd rather tell you the four weeks is enough than sell you six months you don't need. And if you start with one and want to continue, we'll credit what you've already done toward the next.

Still not sure which one?

That's normal, and it's not something you need to solve on your own before we speak. Most people arrive knowing something is off and not much more than that — which is a fine place to start, and honestly the most honest one.

So book a free 30-minute call. No pitch, no pressure. We'll talk about where you actually are, and I'll tell you straight which container fits — including if the answer is "not yet" or "not me."

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